Company forbids laid-off employee from entering the office to return his work laptop because he brought his 2-year-old son with him: ' There was no one at home to take care of him.'

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Dad brings his toddler son to his office to drop off his work laptop after he got laid off.

Got Laid Off, Took My 2-Year-Old Son to Return My Laptop Learned a Hard Lesson About Companies

Got laid off. Went to the office to return my laptop with my 2-year-old son. This experience taught me a lesson.
I was recently laid off, and today I went to the office to submit my laptop as part of my last-day formalities. My wife is also working, and we have a 2-year-old son. There was no one at home to take care of him, so I had no choice but to take him with me.
When I reached the office, I was told that my son couldn't enter the office premises. I explained that it was my last day and that I just needed to submit my laptop and leave. But the answer was still no.
I ended up calling a colleague and asking them to look after my son for what I thought would be 5 minutes. In reality, it took around 15 minutes.
Honestly, I felt really bad. about the whole situation. I'm not saying the company broke any rules. I understand that offices can have policies about visitors and children. But going through this immediately after being laid off made me realize something:
At the end of the day, a company is a company. Your personal situation may not matter to them as much as it matters to you.
You can give years of your time, work late, take ownership, and consider the company a big part of your life. But when the employment relationship ends, it's ultimately a business decision.
For me, this was a painful reminder to keep things in perspective. Take care of your family. Build your life outside of work. Don't make your company your entire identity.
A stressed-out employee who made his work his entire identity, and is now miserable because of it.
I worked at world biggest portfolio management, and this was simply my personal experience during my exit. I'm sharing it because I think others going through layoffs might relate.
Lesson learned: Work is important, but your family and your life outside work are more important. Note: once i saw HR employee bring there baby to office on that basis even I thought it's not against any policy
Correct_Mastodon_240 Next time have them mail you a pre labeled box to send in your laptop. Don't waste your time being extra nice and saving them time or money by dipping anything off.
stevefest When I got laid off, the company wouldn't mail me a box, but instead told me to go to a FedEx store and just charge it to the company's shipping account. Malicious compliance opportunity spotted! So I sent my laptop cross-country via express overnight air shipping in a 24x24x24" box with the premium packing materials upgrade plus paid packing services and signature required for delivery. It came out to somewhere around $350 total, all charged to the company's shipping account. F 'em
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winewaffles "Your personal situation may not matter to them as much as it matters to you" That's the understatement of the century right there.
arcoalien I'm glad I never worked for a large company because this kind of treatment is incredibly dehumanizing.
Punisher-3-1 Meh, I've only worked at extremely large organizations. It's whatever you make you make of it. You can make it as small and personal as you want to if you want to invest in building relationships or you can come in people off, h I maybe even go out of your way to make someones life difficult, and do your job and that's it. In places I've worked I am pretty sure that || was in that boat I could call my boss or a coworker and ask him to drive by my house and take my laptop in for me.
Professional-Box4153 I once heard it said this way: Your boss is never going to remember all those hours of overtime you put in. You son will, though.
RunningMan87 I once had a co-worker coming back from maternity leave bring her son to the office. Everyone was gushing over the baby, and then the VP of HR came, asked my co-worker to go to her office, then said how she can't bring the baby into the office because we have "IP sensitive material." B thought this 2-month old baby's going to post secret sh over the internet! That's how company lapdogs think. They aren't human, they don't have common sense, and all they know is what's written on the
Exciting Transition6 I am a top performer at my company think 55% of revenue in a 6 person sales team, and one day my 2 year old had an appointment, my wife could not reasonably take both kids to the appointment, I told my boss I was gonna go home to tend to my other kid while my wife takes my other kid to the appointment, he asked if I exhausted all avenues like asking my neighbour, I decided to quit on the spot :) it was pretty fun when him and the CEO called me in to have a creative discussio

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